My Walk Down The Aisle

I remember when my marriage was 7 years, i did document  some lessons (please do search for it on the blog, its titled 7 years, 7 lessons). Of course, as the years went by we continue to grow and learn a lot. This time, i wanted my husband to also share some of the lessons learned over the years. We were able to summarize to 10 short lessons shared below:  Fun and true fact- Marriage is the first system God put in place to refine us. Long before salvation came to play. Embrace the process of refinement. It’s a lie from hell, that you are supposed to continue to be who you were before marriage. Never! You are supposed to be better and do better. See that popular triangle description? The one that has God at the top point and both of you at the edges, it works magic. The closer you both draw closer to God, you automatically draw closer to each other. Forgiving each other is very important, it’s true! What is less talked about is forgiving yourself. Learn to forgive each other an...