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The Third Party Effect in Marriage

Initially i thought that phrase "third party" should actually be "fourth party" since God should be the third, then i remembered that "two has actually become one", so we have the couple as one entity, God as another entity and the third party (if there is any). A marriage is between a man and his wife with God as the center of the union, but in all sincerity there are third party influences in marriage too. Most times, when we say third parties, the initial thought is that it has to be a person, but NO, a third party can be anybody and anything that has any form of influence ( positive or negative) in your marriage.  Its a wide spectrum here, its ok to have one or two positive influences in your marriage, but don't make them a party to your marriage, they can help guide you, but they are not a party in your marriage, always learn to draw the line and own your decisions. At the same time, there are third parties with negative effect on marriages a...